Christian Wedding Ceremony
We have come together at the invitation of ___________ to
celebrate the uniting in Christian love--their lives and hearts.
This is possible because of the love God has created in them, through
Jesus said, "I am come that they might have life and that they might
have it more abundantly." This abundant life, for many people, is
an impossible dream, yet God wants us all to have this abundant life
and proved His love for us by giving His Son that we might have this
Another way that God provides for this "full" life is creating those
who will love us. ___________ such a one in ___________ Their
hearts and spirit were drawn together before today by the Lord of all
creation. Two lives are not united by ceremony, but only in the
power, love and grace of God.
___________ and ___________are here to publicly declare that because of
Jesus Christ's love; they too can truly love one another. As God
demonstrated His love in Jesus, our Lord
___________ will demonstrate this God given
love by giving themselves to one another and one for the other.
They have not reached this place alone, each has been given life by
their parents. These who gave to them life, love, provision, are
and will be, a vital part in their continued lives. Their love
has borne fruit in __________ and ___________ Love and respect for
these will continue as they grow in their love made possible by their
Pastor -- Who then has prepared this woman for marriage to this
man? ( or "Who giveth this woman to be married to this man?")
Father of Bride -- "Her family and I have prepared her for
marriage." ( or Father or Bride's escort replies, "Her family and
I do." )
Pastor -- I sometimes counsel with the couple and ask them to write
what they wish to say in their vows one to another, expressing their
love and commitment to each other. They learn this and I allow
them to express it without too much if any prompting. One service
I had, the girl did not remember what she wanted to say so she blurted
out "Jim, I have forgotten what I wanted to say to you - I'm afraid -
but I do love you deeply - with my whole heart!" - the wedding
service was successful!
Pastor to Bride -- A ring is more than a symbol of your marriage.
It is a seal of the vow you have given to one another! The circle
of the ring is, as far as human eye can see, a perfect circle--with no
beginning or end--so God too has perfect love for you and wants you to
love one another in His grace--never, never ending. This ring is
made of precious metal. You also are precious in God's sight and
now in the love of (groom) ___________. When you are absent one
from another, the presence of the ring reminds you to be faithful to
and to fulfill your vow to (groom) ___________.
Rings have historically been the sign of authority--used to seal
documents and proclamations, you now ac-cept this authority in your
Pastor to Groom -- This ring is a seal of ____________'s vow to
you. She presents this to you as a token of her submission to you
in Jesus Christ. This is a symbol of leadership and
privilege. God has placed you as the head of the family.
You must lead in worship, works and fellowship. As the weaker
vessel she depends upon you for strength.
Charge the couple to respond to the Scripture of 1 Peter 3 and Ephesians 5.
Pastor to Groom -- __________, are you now prepared to love
(Bride)___________ as Christ loved the church, are you willing to love,
cherish, provide, protect her, in sickness and sorrow--joyfully,
etc. according to the Word of God will you cherish and love her
as your wife until death separates you? (Answer "I will).
Pastor to Bride -- ___________, are you prepared to be subject to
(Groom) ___________ as described in the Word of God?
As your husband will you respect him, love him, etc. (Answer, "I
I am honored to be the first to present Mr. and Mrs._____________________.